Wednesday, May 8, 2013

As I Lay Dying's Tim Lambesis charged with trying to hire hit man - CNN.com

As I Lay Dying's Tim Lambesis charged with trying to hire hit man - CNN.com

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Christi and Dave Cason are pregnant with 17th kid

Christi and Dave Cason are pregnant with 17th kid

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$250 Million Daytona Facelift In Jeopardy After Decision By Florida Legislature - Forbes

$250 Million Daytona Facelift In Jeopardy After Decision By Florida Legislature - Forbes

Tsarnaev Family Fears Russia Would Even Reject Boston Suspect's Ashes - Yahoo!

Tsarnaev Family Fears Russia Would Even Reject Boston Suspect's Ashes - Yahoo!

Ariel Castro faces rape, kidnapping charges while two women return home to raucous crowds | The Lookout - Yahoo! News

Ariel Castro faces rape, kidnapping charges while two women return home to raucous crowds | The Lookout - Yahoo! News

Castro had ropes, chains, padlocked doors inside house | The Lookout - Yahoo! News

Castro had ropes, chains, padlocked doors inside house | The Lookout - Yahoo! News

Jury finds Jodi Arias guilty of first-degree murder - U.S. News

Jury finds Jodi Arias guilty of first-degree murder - U.S. News

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Cleveland man charged with kidnapping, rape; no charges for 2 brothers - U.S. News

Cleveland man charged with kidnapping, rape; no charges for 2 brothers - U.S. News

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Southeast Radar (Loop) - WRCBtv.com | Chattanooga News, Weather & Sports

Southeast Radar (Loop) - WRCBtv.com | Chattanooga News, Weather & Sports

Check back here for weather forecasts and updates, especially in the Southeast, from WRCB-TV, Chattanooga, TN.

WTVC NewsChannel 9 :: News - Top Stories - Little Debbie Logo Has a New, 'Modern' Look

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'I'm No Hero': Charles Ramsey: Hero of abductions case, instant Internet star - CNN.com

Charles Ramsey: Hero of abductions case, instant Internet star - CNN.com

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Dennis Rodman asks Kim Jong Un to let Korean-American go - CNN.com

Dennis Rodman asks Kim Jong Un to let Korean-American go - CNN.com

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Autopsy reveals Michael Jackson's secrets - CNN.com

Autopsy reveals Michael Jackson's secrets - CNN.com

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Lanier Says Police Will Meet Rifle-Toting July 4 Marchers at District Border: DCist

Lanier Says Police Will Meet Rifle-Toting July 4 Marchers at District Border: DCist

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Barkley: ‘I played with gay players’ | NBC on Yahoo! Sports - Yahoo! Sports Canada

Barkley: ‘I played with gay players’ | NBC on Yahoo! Sports - Yahoo! Sports Canada

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NRA Youth Day offers free memberships to children

NRA Youth Day offers free memberships to children

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Ralph Polnicky reportedly receives threatening dildo in mail

Ralph Polnicky reportedly receives threatening dildo in mail

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BREAKING: With Hours Remaining, Mississippi Stays Execution Of Man Whose DNA Was Never Tested

BREAKING: With Hours Remaining, Mississippi Stays Execution Of Man Whose DNA Was Never Tested: pHours before his scheduled execution at 6 p.m. today, the Mississippi Supreme Court has issued a stay to Willie Jerome Manning, whose death sentence was upheld in a 5-4 court ruling last week even though the state refused to test available DNA evidence, and the FBI deemed major pieces of evidence in the case “unscientific” [...]/p

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Three Bodies Found on Farm in Rural Kansas

Three Bodies Found on Farm in Rural Kansas

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Pentagon: Estimated 26,000 Sexual Assaults In Military Last Year

Pentagon: Estimated 26,000 Sexual Assaults In Military Last Year: pJust one day after the Air Force’s chief of sexual assault prevention was arrested for sexual assault himself, a new Pentagon report shows a sharp increase in the estimated number of assaults in the military annually. The report from the Department of Defense’s Sexual Assault Prevention and Response Office for Fiscal Year 2012 found a [...]/p

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REPORT: The U.S Has The Highest First-Day Infant Death Rate In The Industrialized World

REPORT: The U.S Has The Highest First-Day Infant Death Rate In The Industrialized World: pEach year, about one million infants around the world die on the same day they’re born. That figure includes about 11,300 U.S. babies — the highest first-day infant mortality rate of any other country in the industrialized world, according to a new report from Save the Children. In fact, the United States’ rate of first-day [...]/p

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Deadly giant snail found in Houston - U.S. News

Deadly giant snail found in Houston - U.S. News

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Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Danish Scientists On Verge of HIV Cure | HIVPlusMag.com

Danish Scientists On Verge of HIV Cure | HIVPlusMag.com

Delaware to become 11th state with gay marriage

Delaware to become 11th state with gay marriage

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Jury returns to Jodi Arias murder trial

Jury returns to Jodi Arias murder trial

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Missing women found in Ohio: What we know

Missing women found in Ohio: What we know

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Suspect in Colo. shootings to plead not guilty by reason of insanity

Suspect in Colo. shootings to plead not guilty by reason of insanity

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Cause of plant explosion found, Texas fire officials say

Cause of plant explosion found, Texas fire officials say

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Dow closes above 15,000 for first time

Dow closes above 15,000 for first time

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Colony Collapse Disorder Is Killing Honey Bees, and we don't know how to stop it | TIME.com

Colony Collapse Disorder Is Killing Honey Bees, and we don't know how to stop it | TIME.com

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Nine years before rescue, cops visited Cleveland home where women were held - U.S. News

Nine years before rescue, cops visited Cleveland home where women were held - U.S. News

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Bad news at the grill as beef prices hit all-time high - Business on NBCNews.com

Bad news at the grill as beef prices hit all-time high - Business on NBCNews.com

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Sleep problems linked to increased prostate cancer risk

Sleep problems linked to increased prostate cancer risk

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REMEMBERING MOTHER (By Toney Atkins (c) 1994, 2005, 2013)

MOTHER'S DAY
-----Don't forget your mother on Mother's Day in May (May 12, 2013)! from VISIONS Column

By TONEY ATKINS

In past years, I have received a number of wonderful and inspiring phone calls and letters about what would become my annual tribute in the Daytona Times to my beautiful mother, who passed from this world on April 17, 1994.

There have been requests to repeat that tribute, at least in part, to share with those who know what it means to have lost a mother and with those who are fortunate enough to still be able to look their mothers in the eyes on Mother's Day and say, "I love you."

This year marks the 18th anniversary of my mother's death and the 18th year that I still get choked up when I pass a counter in a store stocked with Mother's Day cards - especially the giant ones, which would truly have impressed my mom.

I recently traveled back to the town in which I was born to be with my dad, who currently is going through several different health crises which threaten to take him from me, too.

During the last few months of her life, my mother pleaded with me to get closer to my earthly father and to take care of him. He and I, indeed, have bridged a terrible gap that always seemed to be between us for far too many years, so the prayers of a loving mother were answered - and I am grateful. My dad, who took tender care of Mother during her final months, and I both still miss the woman who had a tremendous impact on both our lives.

My mother is eternal now, but in a spiritual sphere where I can't pick up the telephone and call her and tell her how concerned I am about my father and to hear her words of comfort and advice. Oh, how I miss her! Oh, how I realize how much I took her for granted! Time has increased my appreciation and love for her, but she's not here for me to tell her so.

Somewhere in my belongings is the Mother's Day card I had bought ahead of time in 1994 - the first time I had gotten one in years to send early so she would get it on or before Mother's Day, not several days or a week afterwards. "Better late than never," I always said with a laugh as I excused myself and apologized when she inevitably received it late, and she always said she forgave and thanked me profusely.

I still vividly remember the night that I walked into a dimly lit room in a Georgia hospital and looked down at the shell of my mother on the bed. She appeared to be so at peace and looked so much younger than her 74 years.

An hour earlier, she had been struggling for breath as she lay in a coma on a bed in another room in the hospital, with tubes running into her nose and into her arms that seemed brutally bruised by too many intravenous needles. There were fewer of them than there had been before, because they were relatively useless now. The doctors and nurses had told my dad and me that her body was shutting down, its parts failing rapidly, and that soon the few breaths we heard rattling through the room would be silent.

They were right. Her battle with cancer, congestive heart failure and other ailments - especially the stroke that sent her to the hospital for the last time - would be over that Sunday night - three weeks to the day before Mother's Day that year.

The card she never got to see was still in Daytona Beach.

The blessing was that, at least by appearances, she died without apparent agony from the horrible pain she could have been feeling. She had suffered very much. After her last breath, even with the hospital paraphernalia still attached to her, her years of struggle melted away. As her spirit entered a realm free of suffering, her face expressed its relief.

My mother loved me - sometimes, I thought, too much. She never liked my living 550 miles away. I lived under the "curse" of being an only child and being "smothered with love."

She was an outspoken woman, even more so with age. You could always depend on her speaking her mind to anyone and everyone. If you didn't like it - tough! But most people, young and old, including the minister who preached at her funeral, loved her for her simplistic, down-to-earth qualities. They saw her goodness as well as her human frailties, and the minister made special note that she indeed was one of a kind.

My mother was proud of me. It wasn't that I could do no wrong, because she would always be the first to let me know that I often did. But whether she approved or disapproved, she tried to act as though she respected my feelings and decisions.

I was required to send her copies of the Daytona Times (and the Daytona Beach News-Journal, when I was a writer and editor there) so she could proudly show off my writings to her friends and neighbors.

Oh, the many things I miss about Mother! She was always there when I needed someone to talk to. In our long distance telephone conversations, she worried about me, concerned about whether I was eating right, whether I was staying out of trouble and always wanting to know when I was going to get married and give her a grandchild to dote over. Even though I had crossed the threshold of 50 at the time of her passing, I was always her "little boy."

Eleven years later, I still sometimes find it hard to accept that my mother and my best friend is gone and I can't tell her how I feel about her and let her know that she did a wonderful job in trying to raise a good son. (None of my character defects can be blamed on her.)

How I wish I could hug her tightly and talk to her now!

The purpose of this writing is simple. It's not just therapeutic. I hope it prompts each and every reader whose mother is still alive to stop and think about that special woman, to remember her and treasure her while she's here, especially on the upcoming Mother's Day.

Pay her a visit. Send a card. Send flowers. Give her a telephone call. Buy a gift. Make her feel special, because after all, she brought someone special into the world - you.

Most important, tell her you love her while she can still hear your voice. She'll feel good, and you will, too.


-- This tribute by former Daytona Times Assistant Editor Toney Atkins was written and published before Mother's Day, shortly after his mother's death in 1994. Slightly edited to reflect the passage of time, it is dedicated to all mothers everywhere and to the children who love and respect them.


(c) 2005, Toney Atkins / Daytona Times

COMMENTS? GO TO MY GUESTBOOK AT www.toneyatkins.com/ .

Report: Toxic Chemicals Found in Thousands of Children's Products | Common Dreams

Report: Toxic Chemicals Found in Thousands of Children's Products | Common Dreams

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Search drags on for bomb suspect burial spot

Search drags on for bomb suspect burial spot

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Anti-aging brain discovery points to hypothalamus

Anti-aging brain discovery points to hypothalamus

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Mississippi Still Poised For Tuesday Execution, Despite DOJ Warnings That Evidence Is 'Invalid' | ThinkProgress

Mississippi Still Poised For Tuesday Execution, Despite DOJ Warnings That Evidence Is 'Invalid' | ThinkProgress

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NRA 'Home Defense' Course Instructs Audience To Store Guns In Kids' Room | ThinkProgress

NRA 'Home Defense' Course Instructs Audience To Store Guns In Kids' Room | ThinkProgress

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Gun Protesters Plan March On Washington With Loaded Rifles To 'Put The Government On Notice' | ThinkProgress

Gun Protesters Plan March On Washington With Loaded Rifles To 'Put The Government On Notice' | ThinkProgress

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Mystery surrounds deadly fire in crowded limo - CNN.com

Mystery surrounds deadly fire in crowded limo - CNN.com

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Monday, May 6, 2013

Solar Eclipses: An Observer's Guide (Infographic) | Solar Eclipse Tips | Space.com

Solar Eclipses: An Observer's Guide (Infographic) | Solar Eclipse Tips | Space.com

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Solar eclipse set to turn sun into 'ring of fire' this week - Science

Solar eclipse set to turn sun into 'ring of fire' this week - Science

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Pentagon's annual report on sexual assault shows alarming rise - U.S. News

Pentagon's annual report on sexual assault shows alarming rise - U.S. News

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Senate passes bill allowing states to tax online sales - Business on NBCNews.com

Senate passes bill allowing states to tax online sales - Business on NBCNews.com

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First 3-D-printed gun fired, but its digital blueprints make bigger bang - Technology on NBCNews.com

First 3-D-printed gun fired, but its digital blueprints make bigger bang - Technology on NBCNews.com

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Officials: Minnesota man arrested on suspicion of plotting terror attack - U.S. News

Officials: Minnesota man arrested on suspicion of plotting terror attack - U.S. News

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Three Ohio women found alive after being missing for a decade - U.S. News

Three Ohio women found alive after being missing for a decade - U.S. News

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Settle down: no 'sex superbug' in the US, despite reports - Vitals

Settle down: no 'sex superbug' in the US, despite reports - Vitals

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How Your Sleep Affects Your Heart

How Your Sleep Affects Your Heart

I can attest to the contents of this WebMD link, which I dedicate to your health.

Karzai Said He Was Assured of Cash Deliveries by C.I.A. - NYTimes.com

Karzai Said He Was Assured of Cash Deliveries by C.I.A. - NYTimes.com

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How Your Sleep Affects Your Heart

How Your Sleep Affects Your Heart

SPECIAL: FOR YOUR HEALTH from WebMD.com

'Uninsurables' at risk as states fear losing federal aid - Vitals

'Uninsurables' at risk as states fear losing federal aid - Vitals

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Associated Press TAX ON INTERNET PURCHASES?

Associated Press

Will there be a tax on internet purchases? Check the Associated Press link.

Pit bull saves woman from fire at Long Island home

Pit bull saves woman from fire at Long Island home

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Kyle Busch starts 16-car wreck at Talledega - NASCAR News | FOX Sports on MSN

Kyle Busch starts 16-car wreck at Talledega - NASCAR News | FOX Sports on MSN

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Mom charged with leaving 4 kids in car while she drank in bar - U.S. News

Mom charged with leaving 4 kids in car while she drank in bar - U.S. News

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Iran talks tough as Syria claims Israel attacked military facility - CNN.com

Iran talks tough as Syria claims Israel attacked military facility - CNN.com

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My Way News - Hill aides: White House recalculates spending cuts

My Way News - Hill aides: White House recalculates spending cuts

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Sunday, May 5, 2013

Tsarnaev uncle arrives in Mass., but family can't find a place to bury bombing suspect - U.S. News

Tsarnaev uncle arrives in Mass., but family can't find a place to bury bombing suspect - U.S. News

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Six-year-old critical after being shot by her 13 year old brother - U.S. News

Six-year-old critical after being shot by her 13 year old brother - U.S. News

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Referee punched in face by teen player dies - CNN.com

Referee punched in face by teen player dies - CNN.com

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Syria: Attack on military site was a 'declaration of war' by Israel - CNN.com

Syria: Attack on military site was a 'declaration of war' by Israel - CNN.com

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Limo erupts in flames; 5 women die - CNN.com

Limo erupts in flames; 5 women die - CNN.com

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Children at Risk | Southern Poverty Law Center

Children at Risk | Southern Poverty Law Center

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SPLC applauds Sen. Leahy’s call to avoid using tragedy to derail immigration reform | Southern Poverty Law Center

SPLC applauds Sen. Leahy’s call to avoid using tragedy to derail immigration reform | Southern Poverty Law Center

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Hate Map | Southern Poverty Law Center

Hate Map | Southern Poverty Law Center

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'Nativist Extremist' Groups 2012 | Southern Poverty Law Center

'Nativist Extremist' Groups 2012 | Southern Poverty Law Center

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Active ‘Patriot’ Groups in the United States in 2012 | Southern Poverty Law Center

Active ‘Patriot’ Groups in the United States in 2012 | Southern Poverty Law Center

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Terror From the Right: Plots, Conspiracies and Racist Rampages Since Oklahoma City | Southern Poverty Law Center

Terror From the Right: Plots, Conspiracies and Racist Rampages Since Oklahoma City | Southern Poverty Law Center

Toney Atkins says: Hate groups are active in the United States, even moreso since the election of President Barrack Obama. Many believe that homegrown terrorism, such as the Boston Marathon bombing (an overseas link has not yet been found), is expected to increase. The brothers who set off the bombs in Boston have not been determined to belong to a group, but they had lived in the U.S. for years and the surviving suspect became a citizen last year. All Americans need to be alert as to what is going on around them. The enemy is not just overseas. It is within our borders, and whether we want to believe it or not, the war against terrorism has come to our shores.

MY WEBSITE OFFERS STORM WEATHER UPDATES, BREAKING NEWS

MY WEBSITE OFFERS STORM WEATHER UPDATES, BREAKING NEWS

Report: 5 killed when limo catches fire on California bridge - CNN.com

Report: 5 killed when limo catches fire on California bridge - CNN.com

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Pentagon: More tests will take North Korea closer to nuclear missile - CNN.com

Pentagon: More tests will take North Korea closer to nuclear missile - CNN.com

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Photos: People we lost in 2013 - CNN.com

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NASA captures stunning solar images

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Second autopsy awaits Boston bombing suspect - CNN.com

Second autopsy awaits Boston bombing suspect - CNN.com

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